Have you ever blamed someone for hurting your feelings?
Most likely… Right?
But have you ever wondered, how you learned to allow others, to affect your emotions?
Sometimes we forget to pause and think; instead… we respond to the situations on autopilot.
When your emotions have an impact, it’s hard to take charge and not let emotions destroy you.
Are you guilty of living in the “victim” mode?
Identifying False Beliefs
First, you need to accept that you have bought into the wrong set of beliefs and views that are no longer benefiting you…
Realizing that you are in charge is one of the freeing feeling you can possess.
You are in control, and you are … the gatekeeper to your emotions.
You can let hurtful words of others hit you like a brick and injure you, or you can take the block out of their hands and use it – to build the life you love...
What do I mean by that?
You Get to Interpret the message…
Words on its own are just that! Words…
They can’t hurt you; they need your assistance…
I order to get triggered by the words you must attach mining to the message you get.
When your ego gets hurt, pay close attention…
Pay close attention to the meaning and significance you are attaching to the message.
What emotions are getting triggered and confused?
Remember, you get to interpret the words of others!
You Get to Choose
Our past will always try to control how we respond to situations today. Old trauma and pain, we carry over the years, have a lot to do with the meaning we attach to the messages today.
How crazy is that!
Holding on to old disappointments and misfortunes will only bring alike.
You are the only one who can choose to identify the triggers and let old trauma and guilt fall away.
Determine how you are going to let others influence your emotions.
End the blame game and initiate the opportunity to start accepting responsibility for your choices…
Forgive them as they didn’t know how they got swayed by the misleading beliefs they acquired… Forgive and let go!
You get to choose how to act and how to react in any given situation.